談戀愛要小心,危險情人可能也是暴力加害人...
Be Careful in the relationship, dangerous lover could be the violence committer.

談戀愛可以讓心情愉快、整個人也會容光煥發,但要小心的是對方如果常將不愉快的情緒出在情人身上的話,很有可能就是遇到危險情人了!新聞報導出嘉義縣一名男子將網路認識的女友視為搖錢樹,女主角欲分手,竟威脅將兩人性愛影片PO上網,脅迫當性奴隸,並搶走被害人手機。因此,在網路上交友除了要小心外,也要注意男朋友是否具有以下特質,北市衛生局公布了「危險情人六大徵兆」,通常具有以下特質:「緊迫盯人要求報備行蹤」、「習慣性斥責情人的發言」、「習慣以輕蔑的態度看待情人」、「過分干預對方私生活」、「漠視情人的想法或需求」及「對情人有言語暴力」等6項,假如情人出現了其中的幾項,建議及時分開,但要避免激怒對方,而且分手的立場要堅定,以免讓對方會有過度期待。

Fall in love can make people joyful and look glowing, but need to be careful if the lover often express unpleasant emotion toward the others, by any chance it maybe a dangerous lover. News reported a man in ChiaYi treated his girlfriend as Cash Cow. When she would like to break up with him, he threated to post their intimacy film on the web, intimidated her to be sexual and grab the victim’s mobile. Thus, making friends via social networking need to be careful, also need to pay attentions on boyfriend’s character as below. Department of Health, Taipei City Government has released “Six Signs of dangerous lover”, normally there are “ Keep a close eye and instant feedback requested”, Constantly fulminate at lover’s talking”, “ Constantly despise lovers”, “ Over intervene lover’s private life”, “ Ignore lover’s thoughts and needs”, and “Verbal violence toward lover”. If some of above six signs shown on the lover, would suggest separating immediately but avoiding to enrage him, and firmly state the position for breaking up, in order to avoid he has over expectation.

 

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